Dr. Esther Perel (born 1958) is a world-renowned relationship expert and psychotherapist of Polish-Jewish. She has helped countless couples improve their relationships and prevent divorce.
Dr. Perel is also the author of the best-selling book, “Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence.” In her book, Dr. Perel explores the importance of maintaining a healthy sexual relationship in a committed relationship. She offers readers practical advice on how to keep the spark alive in their relationship.
Here are some recommended books by Esther Perel.
Breaking the Male Code by Robert Garfield
Robert Garfield’s book, Breaking the Male Code, explores the ways in which men can break out of the traditional gender roles that have been assigned to them.
Garfield argues that there are many ways in which men can express themselves outside of the traditional masculine ideal. He believes that men should be allowed to be emotional, to be vulnerable, and express themselves in non-traditional ways.
Breaking the Male Code is a groundbreaking book that will change the way we think about masculinity. Garfield provides readers with a fresh and innovative perspective on what it means to be a man in today’s world.
Can Love Last? by Stephen A. Mitchell
In his book, Can Love Last?, noted psychoanalyst Stephen A. Mitchell explores the possibility that love can indeed last a lifetime. Mitchell draws on case studies and real-life examples to argue that love is not just a fleeting emotion, but something that can be cultivated and nurtured over time.
Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or still searching for that special someone, Can Love Last? is essential reading for anyone who wants to understand the complex dynamics of love. Mitchell offers readers a fresh and insightful perspective on one of the most universal human experiences.
Crime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoevsky
Fyodor Dostoevsky’s Crime and Punishment is a novel about a man who commits a crime and then must suffer the consequences. The book explores the themes of morality, justice, and redemption.
Dostoevsky’s novel is set in St. Petersburg, Russia in the 19th century. The story centers on Raskolnikov, a poor student who kills an elderly pawnbroker for her money. Raskolnikov believes that he is above the law and that his crime is justified. However, he soon realizes that his actions have consequences and that he must pay for his crime.
Crime and Punishment is a powerful novel about morality, justice, and redemption. Dostoevsky masterfully explores these themes through the characters and events of the story.
Family Healing by Salvador Minuchin
In his book, Family Healing, Salvador Minuchin offers readers a comprehensive guide to understanding and resolving family conflict. Minuchin, a world-renowned family therapist, draws on over 40 years of clinical experience to show how families can heal the wounds of past hurts and build stronger, more supportive relationships.
With insight and compassion, Minuchin shows how families can identify and change the negative patterns of behavior that keep them stuck in conflict. He also provides practical tools for helping families communicate more effectively and resolve their differences in a constructive way.
Family Healing is an essential resource for anyone who wants to understand and improve their family relationships. By sharing his wisdom and expertise, Salvador Minuchin has given us all a valuable gift that can help us create healthier, happier families.
Fighting for Your Marriage by Howard J. Markman
Howard J. Markman, a professor of psychology at the University of Denver, has been studying marriage for over three decades. In his book, “Fighting for Your Marriage,” he offers advice on how to keep your marriage healthy and strong.
Markman says that the key to a happy marriage is communication. He recommends that couples set aside time each week to talk about their relationship. He also suggests that couples find ways to show their love and appreciation for each other.
Markman’s book is based on years of research and includes tips from experts on how to improve communication, conflict resolution, and intimacy in your marriage. If you’re looking for ways to strengthen your relationship, this book is a great resource.
How to Fix a Broken Heart by Guy Winch
In his book, How to Fix a Broken Heart, Guy Winch provides readers with a step-by-step guide to mending a broken heart.
Winch, a psychologist, and author, believes that the process of grieving is often misunderstood. “The five stages of grief are not linear,” he writes. “You do not go from denial to acceptance in tidy steps.” Rather, he says, the process is more like “a circuitous journey through all five stages – sometimes repeatedly.”
Winch offers practical advice for moving on after a breakup or other loss. He urges readers to give themselves time to grieve and to be patient with the process. “Your heart will heal,” he promises. “It just might take some time.
If This Is a Man and The Truce by Primo Levi
If This Is a Man and The Truce by Primo Levi are two of the most important Holocaust memoirs. If This Is a Man tells the story of Levi’s experience in the Auschwitz concentration camp, while The Truce recounts his return to Italy after his liberation.
Both books are essential reading for understanding the horrors of the Holocaust, as well as the strength and resilience of the human spirit. If This Is a Man is particularly notable for its unflinching look at the dehumanization that took place in Auschwitz. Levi’s clear-eyed prose makes for a harrowing, but ultimately hopeful, read.
Liquid Life by Zygmunt Bauman
In his book Liquid Life, Zygmunt Bauman explores the idea that we are now living in a “liquid” society, where everything is constantly changing and nothing is permanent.
He argues that this liquid society is a result of globalization and modern technology, which have made it easier for people to move around and communicate with each other.
This has led to a more individualistic culture, where people are more concerned with their own needs and desires than with the needs of others.
Bauman argues that this liquid society is not necessarily a bad thing, but it does present some challenges that we need to be aware of.
Love Rules by Joanna Coles
In her book, “Love Rules,” Joanna Coles offers readers a fresh and modern approach to dating and relationships.
Coles draws on her own experiences as well as those of her friends and colleagues to explore the often-confusing world of modern love. She offers advice on everything from how to navigate online dating to what to do when you’re in a relationship.
“Love Rules” is a must-read for anyone who is looking for love in the 21st century.
Nonviolent Communication by Marshall B. Rosenberg
Dr. Rosenberg’s book on Nonviolent Communication has helped countless people improve their relationships with others.
The book provides a model for communication that is based on mutual respect and understanding. It is a valuable resource for anyone who wants to improve their communication skills.
The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker
In her book, “The Art of Gathering,” Priya Parker argues that gatherings in our lives are too often dull and unproductive. With the right approach, she says, we can transform these meetings into lively, enriching experiences.
Parker draws on her experience as a professional facilitator to show how the principles of improvisation can be used to create gatherings that are more creative and adaptive to change. She also offers practical advice on how to overcome the challenges that often arise when bringing people together.
Whether you’re planning a small family get-together or a large corporate event, “The Art of Gathering” will help you make it a truly memorable experience.
The Art of Loving by Erich Fromm
The book “The Art of Loving” by Erich Fromm is a guide to love, and how to achieve it. The book covers different topics such as self-love, love for others, and love in general. Fromm provides tips and advice on how to love oneself first in order to be able to fully love another person.
He also discusses the different types of love and how they can be distinguished from one another. Lastly, the book explores the concept of love as a verb rather than a feeling.
The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin
In his book The Erotic Mind, sex therapist Jack Morin explores the role of sexual fantasies in a person’s sex life. Morin argues that sexual fantasies are essential to a healthy and fulfilling sex life. He believes that sexual fantasies can help people explore their sexuality and fulfill their sexual desires.
Morin provides readers with a detailed guide to understanding and exploring their own sexual fantasies. He includes information on how to overcome shame and guilt associated with sexual fantasies, how to communicate them with a partner, and how to use them to improve one’s sex life.
The Erotic Mind is an essential read for anyone interested in exploring their sexuality. Morin’s insights and guidance will help readers understand their own sexual desires and create a more fulfilling sex life.
The New Monogamy by Tammy Nelson
In the book, “The New Monogamy”, Tammy Nelson explores the idea that monogamy doesn’t have to mean sexual exclusivity. She argues that monogamy can be redefined to include things like emotional and spiritual intimacy, which can make a relationship stronger.
Nelson believes that the traditional view of monogamy is outdated and doesn’t take into account the fact that people are capable of loving more than one person at a time. She argues that we should redefine what it means to be monogamous in order to create more fulfilling relationships.
Nelson’s book provides readers with a new way of thinking about monogamy and how it can be used to improve relationships. If you’re interested in learning more about alternative ways to think about monogamy, then this book is for you.
You Can Be Right (or You Can Be Married) by Dana Adam Shapiro
Rekindling Desire by Barry McCarthy
Taking Sexy Back by Alexandra H. Solomon
Marriage Confidential by Pamela Haag
Sync Your Relationship, Save Your Marriage by Peter Fraenkel Ph.D.
Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan
Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl
The Return of Desire by Gina Ogden
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